Process of elimination I call it.......

Okay so my gears have been rolling since my recovery and I've tried to explore every avenue of truth and untruths I could find on my map. By now I feel like an attorney or maybe an investigator because I've literally gone over ever possible scenario I can find. The facts remain evident though my husband of five years I've known for seven years is not an angel. He has not always followed through, not always been dependable and not always told the truth. So with that being stated. What would make someone feel so morally obligated to a situation to approach the opposite sex in the matter and not your friend of four years whom you've deployed with twice and you view as your brother. Is a man who doesn't normally speak in a vulgar, degrading manner to women be capable of just flat out asking his longtime friends wife to eat her pussy....... My thoughts with alcohol anything possible because one thing I know to be true in life is that it is those we hold close that we often know less about and are the individuals who hurt us without intending to. Do men think logically not all.share feedback more to follow.......