Sunday, February 13, 2011

Truths whose to say?

Okay in my earlier blog I shared with you a story of disloyalty at it's best. So who was disloyal and why? Could it be everyone but the naive husband who was being cheated on by his wife Betty be the only subject. Think about it I've known Betty all of eight months I've been out with her and her family, allowed her to watch my child, watched her children, been in her home and vise versa. With that being shared what should have been my loyalties to her. Should I have continued to cover for her and let my husband believe I in fact was the one sleeping around or should I have done exactly what I did which is be honest with my husband and not risk my home sanity for someone else's short comings? Was I loyal to my husband? I feel I was I shared something in confidence with him. His response was for me two stop associating with the gentlemen in question. My response well what about her she is just as guilty. His reply as long as he's dealing with the husband ( his friend of four years) she couldn't be cut off! So now that brings me to the topic of whose word should have been golden. Next blog stay tuned share feedback pls.
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  1. TiffanyFebruary 13, 2011 at 10:27 AM

    Real simple: Your home sanity should come first. I'm what some folks would call cold-hearted at times and that's with anyone. If a person is causing issues between you and your spouse then they should be cut off, regardless of who they are married to. But, that's just my humble opinion.

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  2. AnonymousFebruary 14, 2011 at 5:57 AM

    It took me some time to think about this one and this is what I have come up with....something happened. If you have a gut feeling about something then nine times out ten..you are right about it. You may or may not ever get down to the bottom of what happened but take it as a lesson learned. Be careful of the company you keep around your man/woman. Especially someone that is not faithful to their own spouse. As a woman you must be aware of what is going on at all times. If you don't, the dog will get lose and play. Hoping that you don't find out. Don't worry, some ladies are just as bad as the men. It's just the thrill of something new. What I would do for something like this is move on. I would forgive him but definitely not forget.

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